【看了一定要傳！】誰說早婚一定是不成熟的決定！新加坡男子來告訴你何為 「先成家，再立業！」 看了你都不得不服啊！ 你的另一半可能是你未來成功的關鍵！
新加坡男子來告訴你何為 「先成家，再立業！」
在現今時代，結婚是一個很重大的抉擇。首先，你必須考慮經濟方面，是否有車，房子，和事業？這些都是基本須達到的條件。很多人都是會先拼事業再考慮結婚，或某些早婚的是因為有了貴子而不得不結婚。但以下這名男子卻有另一番看法，不僅說出了男生的心聲，更表現出他對他妻子的愛和肯定。
一名年齡25的新加坡男子Jerald Lie 結婚了。當許多人他為何那麼早結婚的時候，他只回答：「因為她的賢良柔順和其他優良的方面，她是最好的。」 此外，他覺得在25歲定性下來是最好的抉擇，只因他腦里的一句」先成家，再立業「。
這名新加坡男子覺得有了一個安穩的家庭，才能讓他毫無顧慮的把精神注重在事業上。隨後他也補充，他之所以覺得他的妻子賢良是因為她清楚了解自己身為妻子的角色。不僅每早起床為他準備早餐，還將家裡打理得井井有條。這些都不是許多現代女子能幹的事，因為並不是每位女子都會烹飪或即使你會，你願意每早天未亮就起床準備早餐給你丈夫吃嗎？
除此之外，他妻子每天把他當成貴賓般招待，甚至聽命於他所有的指示。但前提先得讓大家知道，這並不是奴隸臣服於君王的角色，而是他的妻子信任他，一直都把他當成一家之主般看待。他兩人的生存之道便是互相尊重，關照，團結並和諧共處。此外，他妻子說的話他也會用心把它聽完。
他說女人要的很簡單，她們只是希望我們男生多做一些會讓她們開心的事情。他的一句名句」男人要的是尊重，女人要的是愛「 讓很多網友都為之感到贊同。隨後，他更補充說自己會拒絕當被邀請去喝酒時即使他的酒量好，但他不想讓他心愛的人擔心也想要一個更健康的未來。他也說明，愛情是動詞並不是名詞，愛需要行動來表現！
男生們別因為面子而不去表態，勇敢地去愛，不然以後你就後悔了！此外，不管是女友或老婆，我們都應該為她們付出最真誠的愛，多做一些讓她們開心的事，少做些讓她們提心弔膽的事。愛情不是說來就來，也不是說走了就能挽救回來。
讓我們來看看Jerald Lie的原文是怎麼說的吧！
THIS LADY SIMPLY LEFT ME SPEECHLESS. MANY OF MY FRIENDS ACTUALLY CAME TO ME AND ASKED 「JERALD, WHY DID YOU SETTLE DOWN SO EARLY?」 IN MY MIND, I THOUGHT, 「SO EARLY」 IS RELATIVE. 25 YEARS OLD CAN BE EARLY TO SOME, CAN BE LATE TO OTHERS. BUT TO ME, I FIND THAT THE SETTLING DOWN AT THE AGE OF 25 IS PERFECT. THE WORLD WILL SHIFT AND ALIGN FOR A MADE UP MIND… 先成家，再立業 … SETTLE DOWN EARLY AND FOCUS MY ENERGY ON MY BUSINESS … SO LET ME SHARE WITH YOU WHY I CHOSE HER… SHE IS A SUBMISSIVE WIFE. WAIT A MINUTE… BEFORE YOU THINK I』M MCP… LET ME CLARIFY… SHE IS SOMEONE WHO REALLY KNOWS HOW TO TAKE CARE OF ME. A WIFE WHO SAYS THAT SHE WANTS TO COOK FOR ME… (MAJORITY OF THE LADIES NOWADAYS DON』T BOTHER WITH HOUSEHOLD CHORES OR COOK FOR THEIR HUSBAND HAHA… NO WAY… HER MUM BROUGHT HER UP WELL.) AND BOTHERS TO WAKE UP EARLY IN THE MORNING TO PREPARE BREAKFAST FOR ME. SHE GIVES ME VIP TREATMENT EVERY DAY. THAT』S MY EX-GIRLFRIEND. MY CURRENT WIFE… SHE IS VERY WILLING IS SUBMIT TO ME. A LOT OF PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE POWER WHEN SHE DOES THAT. THE POWER OF SUBMISSION ISN』T WHERE YOU KOWTOW TO SOMEONE OR OPEN THE DOOR FOR THEM. IT IS JUST SUBMITTING TO A COMMON MISSION WHERE THERE IS AN ABSENCE OF REBELLION. THE MISSION WE ARE IN IS TO LEAD A PROSPEROUS, UNITED AND BLISSFUL FAMILY. SHE IS WHOLEHEARTEDLY WILLING TO LET ME BE THE HEAD OF THE HOME AND CHOOSE TO PLAY THE MOST IMPORTANT ROLE IN MY LIFE (MY NECK). UNKNOWINGLY, WHEN SHE CHOOSES TO SUBMIT TO ME, SURPRISINGLY, SHE HAS THE POWER. ALLOW ME TO EXPLAIN WITH AN EXAMPLE. WHEN A MENTOR TRIES TO IMPART WHAT HE KNOWS TO HIS MENTEE, IF THE MENTEE CHOOSES TO QUESTION EVERYTHING HE SAID, THE MENTOR KNOWS THIS PERSON IS NOT COACHABLE. SIMPLY BECAUSE THERE IS NO TRUST AND THE MENTEE HAS NOT SUBMITTED TO HIM. ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THE MENTEE CHOOSES TO DO WHATEVER (EXCEPT ANYTHING ILLEGAL, IMMORAL, UNETHICAL) THE MENTOR SAYS, THE MENTEE HAS THE POWER BECAUSE THE MENTOR WILL FEEL BE EVEN MORE OBLIGATED TO HELP THAT MENTEE. SO WHEN MY WIFE SUBMITS TO BE, ALL THE MORE I WILL LISTEN TO HER. AT THE END OF THE DAY, MEN WANT RESPECT (WHICH HE GETS WHEN A WOMAN SUBMITS), WOMEN WANT LOVE (THEY WANT THE MAN TO DO WHATEVER TO MAKE HER HAPPY) … GIVE LOVE AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE RESPECT… THAT』S WHY I TURN DOWN INVITATIONS TO GO DRINKING. I HAVE GOT A GOOD LIQUOR TOLERANCE BECAUSE OF MY DAD BUT I DON』T LIKE TO DRINK. I PREFER TO STAY HOME AND NOT WORRY MY LOVED ONE. I WANT TO STAY HEALTHY AND ENJOY MY WEALTH IN THE FUTURE. I CHOOSE TO SPEND THAT TIME WITH MY WIFE. THESE ARE THE WAYS I SUBMIT TO HER TOO BECAUSE ONE OF HER 「LOVE LANGUAGES」 IS TIME. TAKE A LOOK AT THIS TEXT SENT BY HER!! ALWAYS SO SWEET AND TAKE SO MUCH INITIATIVE TO MAKE ME FEEL LOVED. BTW, LOVE IS AN ACTION WORD. NOT A NOUN!