究得出:成為「廢柴」一定有以下這九大根源……一起來看看,有則改之無則加勉。一起努力成為更好的人吧!
1. 猶豫不決 Indecision
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
比魯莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決。
Those who sway with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who have a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing.
像牆頭草一樣搖擺不定的人,無論其他方面多麼強大,在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅定地人擠到一邊。雷厲風行難免會犯錯,但比什麼也不敢做強。
"The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.
懷特·黑德說:「畏懼錯誤就是毀滅進步。」
2. 拖延 Procrastination
Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
很多時候拖延就是逃避問題和懶惰。
The famous thinker - Romain Rolland said 「Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.」
著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說:「懶惰是很奇怪的東西,它讓你以為那是安逸,是休息,是福氣;但實際上它所給你的是無聊,是倦怠,是消沉。」
3. 三分鐘熱度 Brief period of enthusiasm
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
世界上有80%的失敗都源於半途而廢。
Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.
幾乎所有的人都有過「雄心勃勃地制定計劃,心灰意冷地放棄計劃」的經歷。
4. 害怕拒絕 Fear of rejection
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
厚重而脆弱的自尊。
Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".
大多數時候,我們在人際關係中感受到的「痛」,都和「感到被拒絕」有關。
5. 自我設限 Self-handicapping
Kill your latent ability.
殺死自己的潛能力。
La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
拉羅什富科說:平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東西。
6. 逃避現實 Escape from reality
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
逃避現實者更願意營造一個屬於自己的小世界。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
人的悲劇在於眼高手低。
7. 總找藉口 Excuses
It is not my fault.
錯不在我。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
人一旦犯了錯,第一反應常常是自我辯護。
8. 恐懼 Fear
Timid and cowardly.
謹小慎微的且懦弱。
9. 拒絕學習 Refuse to learn
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
你不是寂寞,你只是不想學習。